The One Wedding Checklist Item Everyone Forgets

Engagement season is here. Between Thanksgiving and Valentine’s Day, thousands of Minnesota couples will say “yes” and dive headfirst into wedding planning. Venues, menus, photographers, playlists—the list feels endless.

But there’s one item almost every wedding checklist forgets: a prenup.

If you just tensed up at the word, take a breath. A prenup isn’t about distrust or pessimism. It’s about clarity. About starting your marriage with the same thoughtfulness you’re putting into your wedding day.

This guide explains why more engaged Minnesotans are adding prenups to their planning list, what Minnesota law actually says about them, and how to start the conversation with confidence.

Why Prenups Belong on Your Wedding Checklist

Most couples in Minnesota don’t realize that a prenup (technically called an “antenuptial agreement”) can save significant time, cost, and conflict later.

Here’s why it matters now—before you say “I do”:

You’re already planning together. Talking about shared goals, values, and finances now builds trust and transparency.
You can protect both partners. A fair prenup ensures clarity for both—not one-sided protection.
It prevents confusion later. If life changes—career shifts, inheritances, kids—a prenup keeps expectations clear.
It’s easier before the wedding. Minnesota law requires full disclosure and enough time for review. The earlier you start, the smoother it goes.

Think of it as one more piece of your wedding planning toolkit—just focused on your marriage, not your day.

Minnesota’s Prenup Basics

Under Minnesota law (Minn. Stat. § 519.11), a prenup is valid if:

It’s in writing and signed before the marriage.
Both partners had a fair opportunity to review and seek independent legal advice.
Each person made a full and fair disclosure of income, assets, and debts.
The terms were fair and equitable when signed and not unconscionable at enforcement.

In short: honesty, fairness, and timing matter. A rushed or one-sided agreement can cause problems later—so start early and work collaboratively.

What a Modern Prenup Really Covers

Forget the movie version. Today’s prenups are less about “mine vs. yours” and more about creating a shared plan:

How you’ll handle joint vs. separate finances
Whether to keep premarital assets or family gifts separate
How to manage debt or student loans
How to handle business ownership or professional practices
Agreements about spousal support or property division if the marriage ends

Handled thoughtfully, these conversations strengthen—not strain—your relationship.

Flat-Fee Prenups: Predictable, Transparent, and Minnesota-Made

Most couples hesitate because they picture hourly rates and surprise bills. That’s why our firm offers flat-fee prenups—a clear scope, one set cost, and no ticking clock.

You’ll know exactly what’s included: consultation, drafting, revisions, and signing guidance. It’s practical, predictable, and built for real couples planning real weddings.

When to Start

Start the prenup conversation as soon as the engagement excitement settles in—ideally 3–4 months before the wedding. That allows time for full disclosure, review, and any necessary revisions without pressure.

Don’t wait until invitations are out or travel is booked; Minnesota courts look favorably on prenups signed well before the wedding date.