Why the Most Romantic Thing You Can Do Might Be a Prenup

There’s a certain glow that comes with engagement season in Minnesota. The snow, the lights, the cozy “we’re getting married” energy that makes even errands feel special. You’re planning your future together — your venue, your first dance, your shared life.

And somewhere between cake tastings and dress fittings, the word “prenup” might appear — usually followed by an awkward pause.

Let’s change that.

Because done right, a prenup isn’t about protecting yourself from your partner. It’s about protecting what you’re building with them. In other words: it might be the most romantic thing you ever do.

Love That Plans Ahead

Romance isn’t just candlelight and champagne. It’s planning a life together with honesty and intention.

A prenup (legally called an antenuptial agreement in Minnesota) creates a clear, fair plan for your shared future. It answers the financial “what-ifs” so you can focus on everything else — your marriage, your goals, your day-to-day peace.

That’s what makes it romantic. It’s an act of care, not control.

What a Prenup Really Says About Your Relationship

When couples come to us for a prenup, we see the same themes again and again: transparency, teamwork, and mutual respect.

A well-crafted prenup says:

We trust each other enough to be honest about money.
We value clarity over conflict.
We’re equals, and we’re building something together.
We want decisions made by us — not by a court later.

Those are the same foundations that make a marriage last.

The Minnesota Framework (and Why It Matters)

Under Minnesota law (Minn. Stat. § 519.11), a prenup is valid only when it’s:

In writing and signed before the wedding.
Based on full and fair disclosure of income, debts, and assets.
Voluntary — no pressure or last-minute surprises.
Fair when signed and when enforced.

That means the process itself is designed to support fairness and open communication — exactly the skills that make a relationship strong.

Flat-Fee Prenups: Predictable, Collaborative, Transparent

Traditional law firms often bill prenups by the hour, leaving couples nervous about every email or question. Our flat-fee model changes that dynamic.

You’ll know the full cost before you start, so you can focus on what really matters — making clear, confident decisions together.

Our approach encourages conversation, not contention. We guide both partners through a transparent process that feels like teamwork, not a transaction.

When to Have “The Talk”

Ideally, start the prenup conversation early in your engagement — before wedding invitations or final contracts. It’s easiest to talk about long-term plans when you’re still in planning mode, not under deadline stress.

You can frame it simply:

“We’re already making big decisions together — about our venue, our home, our future. Let’s talk about how we’ll handle money and responsibilities, too.”

That conversation, handled with honesty and care, is one of the most loving things you can do for each other.